FAQs
Your Questions Answered. . .
Couples who are considering using collaborative family law for
resolution of their dispute tend to have a number of questions
regarding the process. This is perfectly normal, especially since
most people assume that separation has to involve court action for
parties to reach a “fair and equitable” solution.
Listed below are a few common questions, with answers, that may
help you to decide whether collaborative family law is an option you
would like to pursue.
What is Collaborative Family Law?
How does Collaborative Family Law work?
Is the process confidential?
What happens if my partner/spouse is dishonest or doesn’t disclose everything financially?
Why can’t we go to court if it looks as though the collaborative process isn’t going to work?
What happens if we can’t agree on something during negotiations?
How much will it cost?
Is my case suitable for the collaborative process?
How can we get a collaborative case started?
Answers
1. What is Collaborative Family Law?
In a collaborative family law process, clients and their
respective lawyers agree to work together to find a fair solution to
whatever financial or child-related issues need to be addressed
without involving the court.
An agreement is signed between the parties and their respective
lawyers stipulating that the case will not be referred to court and
a satisfactory settlement is then negotiated through a series of
meetings, sometimes involving other independent experts.
Once a settlement agreement has been reached, the parties can
elect to have the agreement sent to a court to be made into an
order.
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2. How does Collaborative Family Law
work?
After deciding that collaborative family law is appropriate in
your case, you, your partner and your lawyers will all sign a
Participation Agreement setting out the ground rules for the
collaborative process.
The majority of the negotiations between you and your partner
will then take place at “4-way” face-to-face meetings between you,
your partner and your respective lawyers. It is at these meetings
that the issues of importance to you and your partner are identified
and negotiated.
The meetings are minuted and action points for future meetings
agreed. Where appropriate, you will be encouraged to draw on the
skills of other specialist advisers, such as accountants to assist
with financial disclosure, or child counsellors to discuss an issue
which may have arisen in relation to the care of your children.
Once a settlement is reached, the lawyers will draw up a
Settlement Agreement which will usually be submitted to the court
for approval and made into a consent order.
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3. Is the process confidential?
All professionals involved in the collaborative process are bound
by their own professional conduct rules and have a strict duty of
client confidentiality.
Any discussions or documentation, (with the exception of
financial disclosure documentation - see below), are legally
privileged and conducted on a “without prejudice” basis which means
that they cannot be referred to in court.
This confidentiality will only be overridden if any of the
experts involved have a professional obligation to make a report to
a relevant authority, for example, if a child is considered to be at
risk.
If the collaborative process fails, you and your partner may not
use any of the information or documentation generated for the
purpose of court proceedings other than that relating to financial
disclosure.
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4. What happens if my partner is dishonest or doesn’t
disclose everything financially?
This can of course happen, as it does sometimes in mediation or
in the conventional legal process. Under the terms of the
Participation Agreement, the lawyer must withdraw from acting for
their client if the client has withheld or misrepresented
information intentionally, or is participating in the process in bad
faith. Likewise, it is open to your lawyer to advise you to withdraw
from the process if they do not consider that your partner, (or
indeed their lawyer), is keeping to the terms of the agreement.
If you discover, after a settlement agreement has been reached,
that your partner has failed to disclose relevant information, then
collaborative family law is no different from any other negotiated
settlement. If the outcome of the settlement would have been
different had the correct information been available, you can seek
to overturn the agreement, even after it has been approved by the
court.
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5. Why can’t we go to court if it looks as though the
collaborative process isn’t going to work?
The reason that collaborative law has been successful in other
jurisdictions is that the lawyers are disqualified from acting for
their client in court should collaboration fail. This encourages all
parties to try and achieve settlement without the threat of court
proceedings when things become difficult.
By agreeing at the outset not to go to court, you, your partner
and the lawyers are encouraged to work hard to reach a settlement
which has your family’s best interests at heart.
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6. What happens if we can’t agree on something during
negotiations?
If an issue arises during the negotiations that cannot be
resolved by you, your partner and your lawyers, an outside
professional will generally be called in to help. Depending upon the
nature of the issue, it could mean the involvement of a counsellor,
child specialist, financial adviser or accountant. In most cases, an
independent expert can review the circumstances and provide
information that assists in the resolution of the matter.
If an agreement still cannot be reached and the case needs to be
referred to court for a decision, then your lawyers and the experts
must withdraw from the case completely. You and your partner will
then need to appoint other lawyers to represent you in court and
your collaborative lawyer and the experts cannot even be witnesses
in your court case.
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7. How much will it cost?
As with the conventional legal process, different lawyers have
different charging rates. Your lawyer will explain to you the basis
of their charging structure and will go through their firm’s terms
of business with you.
Generally speaking, as long as you and your partner act in good
faith, provide the information requested of you within the
timescales agreed and cooperate in the process, the collaborative
process will be quicker and cheaper than the traditional, court
based process.
The issue of how the costs are to be met can be addressed at the
first 4-way meeting. Unless there is an agreement to the contrary,
however, you and your partner will each be responsible for your own
solicitor’s costs and will normally be invoiced monthly.
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8. Is my case suitable for the collaborative
process?
Collaborative family law is not for everyone.
It will be of interest if the following are important to you and
your partner:
- You want a dignified, non-aggressive
resolution of the issues;
- You have children and want to put their
needs and interests at the forefront;
- You do not wish to incur the costs and
animosity generated by court litigation;
- You want to retain control over decisions
regarding your financial settlement and parenting arrangements
(whilst taking advice from experts);
- You need, or would like, the assistance of a lawyer to help
you negotiate in face-to-face meetings.
Collaborative family law will not be the right option for you if:
- Your main objective is to “seek revenge”
on your partner;
- You are looking for a “soft option”;
- You think that the process will allow you
to “out-manoeuvre” your partner;
- You are hoping to get away with giving less than a full and
frank financial disclosure!
In cases where there is a history of domestic violence or other
abuse, the collaborative family law specialists will need to
consider very carefully whether the case is suitable for the
collaborative process. They are likely to insist on the involvement
of other professionals in the process to ensure that the interests
of you, your partner and any dependant children are adequately
protected and represented.
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9. How can we get a collaborative case
started?
It is essential that both parties use lawyers that have been
trained in collaborative family law, which is why groups like
Western Sydney Collaborative Law have formed.
If you think that your partner may be interested in trying
collaborative law as a way of resolving your dispute, refer them to
this website or request a brochure for them to look at. You and you
partner can then select your preferred lawyers from within the
group, knowing that they all have the right training and background
to handle your case.
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